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How relationship counselling might help you
Some Resources
One of the very first steps a couple must take to rebuild intimacy is to learn to express their thoughts and feelings and carefully listen to those of their partner. Without this it's impossible to achieve intimacy. This needs to happen in a way that's safe for partners to express themselves and their needs.
Sometimes we haven't learned the skills necessary to communicate effectively, especially when we get stressed or distressed. I work by trying to create an atmosphere of respect, careful listening and emotional responsiveness, so you can learn the skills necessary to find solutions to your joint difficulties.
Below are some videos you can watch to begin to think about making some positive changes in your relationship.
Dr John Gottman talks about what he has learned over 40 years what makes relationships work or what predicts divorce
Dr Julie Gottman talks about how to make a complaint in your relationship without hurting your partner in the process. This skill is essential for both partners if you are to have a happy and emotionally healthy relationship.